Purity of Heart

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How can one define the purity of water? Take a glass of water and it’s not showing any flakes or dust means it is pure. or one has to test it chemically or do a microscopic test.Whatever it is it always contain some particles under microscope and that’s why it is not pure 100%. But with bare eyes, it is absolutely rubbish to comment on cleanliness. The same thing happens with men.

Chandler was the man of silence. He was extrovert but he contained lots of secret of him as well as others.  Racheal was the witty and mature enough in a group . But chandler contained a secret of her. It was good between them till the heat came in relations. Monica had boyfriend Ross and the were made for each other.

The day comes and Racheal outburst everything on a Chandler with whatever she thought about him and now everything was going to be changed. A person who holds your secret is the deadliest weapon. Who will can you a wise man if you scold that weapon which can kill you in an instance. A foolish will do that and that was Racheal. She strikes hard and tells scars words to him. A man has generally more endurance for anger compared to women. But there is a clause when time comes men destroys everything including him. First, he tries to rescue, then survive and then destroy when water goes beyond level.

Everyone doesn’t know about Racheal’s secret, not even Ross, that secret can destroy the life of her. Trust is based on that slim string which is seen as pure white by everyone until someone burns it and changes its colour to black. everyone appreciate the strings strength and whiteness because no one knows it could be burn. Everyone thinks that relationship or trust is hard and unbreakable between Racheal and Ross.

Now Chandler is on a moral dilemma. Either he can use the secret burn the string and show everyone that in real it is not strong and always white. He could silently walk out destroying people, what is his fault? He just revealed truth. Can Ross do untold the words ? or Racheal denies the proof she gave? why would chandler not take his revenge?  Why did he endure the damage which was not of his part? what is wrong in telling truth though it destroys someone but it’s true. Everything goes with a perception of him.

Thinking that what is the fault of Ross, he keeps his mouth shut. Racheal thinks he is a convict. Such a fool !!! Within a second everything will be ruined. But he keeps that somewhere deep in his self. Why did he keep shut his mouth?  What would one call him?

” The purity of heart  ”

Where hearts are pure, intentions are pure but Methods are wrong, who cares !!! It’s all right. Because the heart is pure.

 

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The Trust Dilemma

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A 21-year boy was there, with lots of dreams and shaking life. He was the ambivert , shy. Sometimes over speaking, blatant sometimes silent like space. it was not new for him to have a trust issue, the reason remains secret forever, neither anyone asked to him nor he tried to explain. rather – just walk out he preferred.

This time he was again with a girl, the result was same – being apart. but the case was unexpected and unknowingly sudden.

Two times in a life he got zero in love. Every time a girl came, watered his heart, grew a beautiful flower plucked it and ran away. However, though the results were same the path and experiences were not. for the first time in life he got a girl with whom he decided the name of their children. who doesn’t do it? He was convinced everytime by that girl and he left questioning. A human psychology says when you allegate someone, he tries to defend himself, he became defensive and forgets about his attack, after few conversation he manages to save himself and forget the real question that he was never wrong but the person alleged him and feared him, he got busy proving himself right and the real thief got out of his mind. He forgot that everytime he raises a question he is distracted and on contrary, he is accused of being the less trusting person. somehow time by time it got blended in his nature and he never raised the question to the girl. The time came when the bubble burst, the girl broke his trust, cheated him. This time he knew but rather the girl came up an idea of breaking up with him.

Now here the boy had lost his mind, was he in a scam or a dream in which he was the puppet? He got trust issue and never trusted anyone because of fear of being cheated.Time by time it gets blended in his nature and he got completely his faith out from all girls.

Meanwhile, he is introduced to a new girl. “Alert !!” His mind says. This time a girl was immature and blindly trusting him. She was childish but pure from the heart. Her feelings were right but the method of showing was not. The heart does its work always and he got her second love. A mixture of Heart and Mind is more dangerous in a relationship , rather you use only one. He uses both of them and that makes him more attracted towards girl but not trusting her always. A metric failure is called the highest educated in a village where everyone has never seen school. The boy was like that metric fail guy, the girl was childish, immature but pure from the heart. Boy’s mind could not understand her true love and his heart never her behaviour. He always had an eye of mistrust on her and she went away from her.

This time the boy lost true love he was searching for many time after it went away. Due to his trust, he was cheated, due to his alertness he mistrusts a trustworthy person and paid. He was not wrong in his place, he used his experience to take decision.

Now the dilemma comes.

A girl comes in his life. he doesn’t love her but has feelings for her. A girl doesn’t want to come in a relationship but equally attracted to him. A boy knows everything about a girl but she knows nothing about that introvert, shy and feared boy. A boy gets slightly attracted and suddenly girl wants her own space. A boy has experience of cheating, pain of loosing love, trust, mistrust, lies and every hard feeling possibly one can have.The boy is annoyed, he doesn’t want to loose her, he becomes irritative, uncontrollable due to fear of loosing this girl. He double checks everything to strengthen his trust in her, but she took that doublecheck as mistrusting behaviour of him. Few days quarrel overflows the capacity of girl to bear him and she alleges him for not trusting him. Despite seeing anything else or try to know the behaviour of that boy she tries to define her own terms on his mind. she alleges him for not understanding her but she never tries to understand him. She makes the boy believed by some story that she is cheating him and boy believes her just because she id firm in saying and he is feared of loosing her. It becomes a case like he lost his real love. So he believes her without question because he wants to trust her. Few minutes after girl

Few minutes after, a girl reverts back her sentences and questions him for trusting her. Why did he believe her that she was cheating him? Boy gets convicted for what he was said to do. She blames him for lack of trust because he believed her story of having a boyfriend. She questions him why he believed her story? Didnt he has trust on her? Everything becomes self-contradicting.  He is never understood by her, he is never asked a single question, he is ordered to believe something and he gets convicted for following that order.

Everything was needed a talk which never happened. A girl ignored him. She thought different picture which he never explained to her. A sound of silence remained between them only. It’s not silence, it’s killing sound actually, which will widen the gap between them with time. Everything needed to be was a simple, Missing talk.

 

 

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How to become a Gentleman.

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The word gentleman is as simple as complex it seems. How can you decide a person is gentleman by seeing him .
We always see someone knowledgeable more than us or with good attitude and etiquettes or speaking good English and we are flattered by his personality and immediately think how can I be like him.

Its not complex to be gentleman , for it you have to first define term gentleman.

A person who is balanced in all terms is gentleman , who possess more knowledge , behavioural stability and presence of mind.

Qualities a gentleman has :

1- Observation – A man who observes more and don’t speak without knowing sufficient about a topic is gentleman in real terms.

2- Persuasion –  A power of persuasion is ability to make someone say ” yes ” for you . It is called also an ability to influence someone.

3 – Boasting – A gentle man neither boasts nor conserve the knowledge . He has the simplest explanation of whatever he know .He believes in sharing and never being conservative.

4 – Happy by seeing someone happy – The whole world has problem if one sees someone happy his heart is burned. People seems smiling from outside but they are burning alive from inside if you are successful. That’s where a gentleman differs.

5 – Reflect As You Are : A person should reflect as he is from inside. No one other than a mirror knows you. You can not lie to mirror. A person knows how bad he is , how many times he has cheated someone , Where will you run from truth asked by your heart ? A person should be honest at a level at which he can see himself in mirror and say yes I am true.

6- Truth : It is a subject of conflict and it is also an art to learn when to speak truth , sometimes a fake sentence can benefit many people in place of if a truth would have been spoken . An art of truth takes time and experience , its judgmental and a gentleman is truly gentleman if he is master.

How to publish PDF from Word 2007 without Plug-in.

Recently I was making Project report  and after each and every small change I have to save my documents as a word file and then go for online hunting to convert it to pdf .

But how can I reduce tiresome efforts  ? Can’t we work smart  ?

Yes , you have an option , either you install Word 2010 or further  or you Install plugin for PDF generation in word 2007 .

But I have found a new way without any installation publish it in PDF.

Here it is , 

Most of the people have Foxit PDF Reader (free) for pdf reading . If you are still using Adobe Reader I will recommend you to use it . It’s free and better .

  1. Open Your word file . 
  2. Press Ctrl + P. It will open the print dialogue box . 
  3. Now on top select Printer Name “Foxit PDF reader.”
  4. Press Print .
  5. DONE !!! 

 

Bingo , you are done . Njoy ….

NOTE : I DONT KNOW IT WORKS WITH ADOBE READER OR NOT , PLZ TRY IT AND COMMENT BELOW. 

Metabolism

Have you ever wonder why your thin friend can eat more than you and still he has lean body ?

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There are many ways to increase the metabolism and the best is to use them all together to increase metabolism throughout the day for maximum fat burning.

Before we start, metabolism can be broken up into two parts. Resting metabolism and active metabolism. Resting metabolism is as the name suggests your level of metabolism when you’re not very active. Like when you’re sitting at the desk or in front of the TV. Active metabolism is when you’re very active, like during a workout.

Because your metabolism is higher only for that one to two hours when you train, it does not really make sense to try to increase your active metabolism further. Your resting metabolism level, however, is maintained for more than 90% of the day. Therefore, you’ll be able to burn many more calories if you increase your resting metabolism. And it’s really very easy to increase your resting metabolism. Does this make sense? You can increase your resting metabolism for a longer period of time to burn more calories and more fat.

Well then, how do you increase resting metabolism?

First thing, immediately upon waking up in the morning, drink 500 ml or more of icy cold water. The water must be really cold. The cold water sucks all the warmth from the body and consequently, your metabolism kicks in to produce energy in the form of heat. It has been shown in some instances that metabolism can be boosted by up to 33% by drinking cold water when you wake up.

Your metabolism will also remain high if you eat 5 to 6 smaller meals during the day instead of three larger meals. That’s because your body must constantly work to digest and absorb the food you’re giving it. And because your meals are more frequent and healthier the body stays active morning till night.

You may also increase the metabolism by eating complex carbohydrates and lots of fiber, like in the form of fibrous green vegetables. Carbs must be of the complex, low GI variety. And your meals should be more protein oriented. The reason for this is because its much harder for the body to digest protein, complex carbs, and fiber. That means your metabolism will remain higher as the body works harder to break down and absorb these foods.

Then also, the metabolism may be increased by using spices like cumin and cayenne pepper on your food. Cayenne pepper has been shown to improve metabolism, even to such an extent that some people put cayenne pepper in capsules and drink those to aid in fat loss. These spices may be really effective. Another effective compound to make use of is caffeine. A cup of coffee or green tea will give you a boost in metabolism. And then staying hydrated and drinking lots of water during the day will keep all your systems functioning at their best and your metabolism high.

Finally, thermogenic fat ripper supplements can also be used to increase metabolism. Make sure you use the products safely though and drink lots of water.

If you can make use of these methods, you should be able to increase your resting metabolism quite a bit. And for 90% of the day. That means you’ll be able to burn off more calories during the day to lose more fat.

When you train and you’d like to increase metabolism, engage in activities that’ll increase your heart rate and cardiovascular demand. Lift lighter weights and do more reps, move faster but not so fast as to lose form on your movements. Decrease the amount of time between sets. Circuit training works well, as well as kettle bell swings. And then slower cardio exercises like walking uphill or biking with some added resistance should help. These exercises must increase the heart rate, so check out for that when you train.

 

~ From Quora

Weight Loss

Generally most of the people slashes their meal and starts strict diet which is harmful to health .

The need is to cut fat but as we are shortening the meal we are cutting muscles .

Remember small decrease in muscles loses much weight ( undesirable ) but lots of fat cutting reduces only few kg of weight ( desirable ) .

Take more proteins and cut fat to be slim  , don’t judge your body by weight it is wrong.